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Written by Lauren Miller
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Monday, 14 November 2011 16:30 |
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Site Coordinator Lauren Miller writes about the change in behavior from a fourth grade student in her afterschool program.
Justus began Club 21, the Communities In Schools of North Texas afterschool program at Peters Colony Elementary School, on a very rough start. He repeatedly made bad choices that were often a distraction to other students. During homework time, he would procrastinate in beginning his work because he did not want to complete it. Once he finished his homework, he struggled with submitting the work to his teacher the next day. He did not work well with others in a group setting and often had difficulty sharing with others. His manner of speech was also very disrespectful towards staff, students and often complicated to understand.
Because of his behavior, Justus had to have a one-on-one meeting with me. During our meeting, I learned that Justus really, really enjoyed being in Club 21, but he struggled with controlling that happiness. His words were, "I want to be a golden happy child and show everyone I'm happy."
We discussed appropriate ways to show that he was happy that would allow him to have a FUN day during Club 21 activities and, most importantly, make friends. He also shared that he enjoyed being a big brother at home to his younger sister. We decided that he should be able to be a "big brother" to other students, and the Club 21 staff would help him make better choices. He agreed and demonstrated that very day how he could be a "big brother" by helping a 2nd grader complete a complicated addition problem. The only statement that I could make while holding back tears was "I'm very proud of you, Justus."
Since that day, Justus' behavior has been completely different. He is patient with his classmates and respectful towards Club 21 staff. Now the Team Leader's special assistant on the team, Justus is leading group activities during enrichment and MindWorks educational activities. Although he may struggle with a bad choice every now and then, he is learning from all of his mistakes and becoming a remarkable 4th grader at Peters Colony Elementary. |
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Written by Holly Steward
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Thursday, 10 November 2011 16:59 |
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Communities In Schools of North Texas Program Manager Holly Steward writes about a student who has maintained a positive attitude even while struggling to find a permanent home.
This month I would like to tell you about Jessica. She is a freshman at Northwest High School and recently moved here from a small town. She and her mother moved away from most of their family to our area to get away from some negative situations.
However, since moving here they have struggled to find housing in our area. They are currently sleeping in tents in the backyard of a family member's home. The family member has repeated told them that she cannot afford to pay for them to remain at her home due to the increase in bills.
At one point, Jessica told me that they would be forced to leave and find somewhere to live quickly. My intern and I spent more than three hours calling shelters, churches, and social services organizations that typically help homeless families. However, due to the ages of Jessica and her sister they were not accepted into any facility.
The search for housing is a constant struggle. Through all of this Jessica has stayed positive and has lunch in my office every day. She has made Northwest High School her new home and has made some good friends. She even recently had her sister move to the area due to her happiness with the support she gets at school. Although Communities In Schools of North Texas continues to provide support to Jessica and her family, every day remains a struggle. |
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Written by Angela Morales
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Wednesday, 09 November 2011 19:12 |
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At Central Elementary in Lewisville Independent School District, Communities In Schools of North Texas Program Manager Angela Morales is amazed by the commitment and relationship that a mentor has built with his student.
Richard Wygle, a Communities In Schools of North Texas mentor at Central Elementary, has made a commitment to meet with his mentee every Wednesday for lunch. In the short months I have been working at Central Elementary, I have been able to meet and interact with the different mentors, and it was a great pleasure to meet Richard and hear that he was on his third year meeting with his student.
The interaction between Richard and his student is completely different from the way the student interacts with anyone else. One of the counselors wanted the student to join in on a lunch group on Wednesdays. The student looked at counselor and told her he couldn't attend the lunch group because he meets with his mentor on Wednesday, and he didn't want to miss it. The counselor said she would reschedule the lunch group to ensure he doesn't miss meeting his mentor for that day.
The student speaks openly with Richard and shares information about school issues. One time, the student shared with Richard that he was being bullied at school by his classmates. He had not mentioned this information to anyone else at the school but trusted Richard enough to tell him.
The student does not like to read aloud, but with his mentor, they read a book together every time they meet. This is truly a wonderful sight to witness, and I share this relationship with other new volunteers, about how much building a one-on-one relationship with a caring adult affects a child. |
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Written by Nicole Scott
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Thursday, 03 November 2011 15:45 |
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Nicole Scott, Communities In Schools Site Coordinator at Ginnings Elementary in Denton Independent School District, brags on an extraordinary staff member in her after school program who has changed the fifth grade class's behavior.
Jarrod McFadden, known by the students as Mr. Bryce, is an Academic Enrichment Specialist with the Communities In Schools of North Texas afterschool program at Ginnings Elementary. He works with the 5th graders and definitely has his hands full. They are a very energetic and lively bunch, and have struggled quite a bit with talking at appropriate times, showing respect, and being able to follow his instructions, especially when lining up to transition from each activity. Mr. Bryce was prepared to deal with anything the 5th graders threw his way. He became known as the "strict teacher" in the 21st Century program. He quickly let his students know that he was in charge and they needed to be able to follow his directions in order to earn their choice of enrichment activities. Sadly it took the 5th grade class a little while to figure out that if they all did what they were asked to do, they were able to have a lot more time for the super fun activities.
Mr. Bryce found it to be helpful to keep a stop watch with him for when the students were wasting their own time by not following directions. He then took the amount of time they wasted and remove that from their enrichment time. Instead they would do a character building activity which often times would be practicing the correct way to line up. We have both explained to the 5th grade class how important it is for them to be able to follow directions and complete simple tasks quickly and quietly. We made it very clear that the 5th graders should be the role models of the school and show the younger students proper behavior.
Mr. Bryce has done an excellent job preparing the students for middle school. During "Decompression Zone," which is the time that students complete their homework and reading, he has come up with his own creative educational activities to do with the students who finish early or don't have any homework. The activities revolve around math. He will have a group of students who have completed their homework come up to the chalk board and give them math problems to work on. He will sometimes make it into a competition and let the students race to see who can correctly finish the problem first. If a student is given check mark for inappropriate behavior or not being on task, he will allow them to solve a simple algebra problem to remove that check mark for the day. If they solve the problem correctly with all of their work shown, the check mark is gone and they have a clean slate.
I am so proud of the progress the 5th graders have made, and I'm happy to have Mr. Bryce on our team. The students' behavior and attitudes are improving, and they really enjoy having Mr. Bryce as their after school teacher. Even though he became known as the "strict teacher" I have heard quite a few of our younger students tell him that they want to be in his class. He has done a great job developing relationships with the students and has gained so much more respect from them. I have even had a few parents let me know how well he is doing and that they have seen significant improvements in their students. |
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Written by Bethany Lewis
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Thursday, 03 November 2011 15:12 |
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Program Manager Bethany Lewis brags on a new mentor who has caught the bug of empowering her student to stay in school and achieve in life.
I have a new volunteer Hedrick Elementary who is just starting to mentor this year. Dana Porter's husband has mentored a student at Lakeland Elementary for a couple of years now and he passed along the interest to her! His student moved to Hedrick Elementary this year, so Dana was placed at Hedrick as well.
She was excited about being matched with a student, but I didn't realize how excited until I received an e-mail after their first meeting which contained the following: "Oh my goodness!!!!! She is just precious...... Just an angel. I enjoyed our time so much!...She was such a joy, and Thursdays are now my highlight of the week!"
I was so excited to hear that after just one meeting, Dana and her mentee, Alicia, had already made a quick connection and couldn't wait to see each other again. Last year, Alicia was meeting with a high school mentor, but because of their always changing schedules, it was hard to have consistency. We decided that it would be beneficial for her to meet with someone who could commit to the whole year.
They have already been able to celebrate a birthday and learn all about each other's favorite things in such a short amount of time! Dana is going to be such an encouragement in her life, and Alicia will greatly benefit from being able to meet with Dana every week for the entire year. |
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